last week in church, my pastor preached a message and it got to me, however after church as my family and I were talking, a man said something that just about knocked me off my feet and it has been on my mind ever since, it was,

“do not be an enabler, do not enable people to live negatively and do not enable others to cause you to live negatively”

that is such a profound thought, after he said that I thought “wow, how many people in my life have I let enable me into living negatively?” It has really been on my mind this entire week and really turned me onto a slightly new path, it’s amazing really how lately I am learning that I am in complete control over my life and I can control who can come in and leave a negative (or positive!) footprint. Although, you obviously cannot control your circumstances, you can control who you let negatively enable you. I hope to look for others who enable positive relationships, positive thoughts, positive works, positive outcomes, I have learned that I have control over who/ what enables me, and so do you. Anyways, this is what I wore…


top: Target, skirt: thrifted, shoes: Steve Madden



“Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” (1 Corinthians 15:33)

Hannah Meade

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